"I've tried so often to FIND a real boyfriend but I can't. What should I do?"
I am tempted to say, 'Stop looking!' The only reason why a woman will never 'find' a real man for herself is that, God never intended for it to happen that way. Biblical reference - God brought Eve to Adam! It's as simple as that.
Sometimes people just try too hard, and then become over-anxious over their apparent lack of success. You can't hurry love. You can't make him love you. Just concentrate on fulfilling your own potential - your own personality, your career, your relationship with God - and don't rush your love life.
The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.